What to do, what to do...

Loss of desire is common in women (but rare in men).It can be put right, but you need to look carefully at the causes of the problem – preferably with the loving cooperation of your partner. There aren’t usually any ‘quick fixes'.Specialised help is available from organisations like Relate, Couple Counselling Scotland, British Association for Sexual and Relationship Therapy (BASRT), theSexual Dysfunction Association, and family planning clinics. A high proportion of women do achieve a return to normal libido.